Imagine you have a very bad time at work and you are so fed up with your co-workers for months. How would it feel like, if you would be in a position to just tell them:
Go and fuck yourself!
You need to earn it.
I do speak from experience that it feels awesome. Our ultimate goal should be, to live your life on your own terms. However, to get in such a luxurious position you need to work hard, so that one day you possess two things: Fuck You Skills and Fuck You Money.
Fuck You Skills means that you are so skilled in your area of expertise, that it would be very easy for you to find a new job. What kind of skills you require are very specific for each individual. Whether you become a great salesperson, the super effective manager or a very specialized expert depends on your traits and interests.
Fuck You Money means that you have so much money, that it does not even matter, whether you work at all. I am so happy that I have both.
Everyday becomes a party.
O nce you manage to have both, life becomes easy. The motivation for your actions changes from: need money to survive to: fun, pleasure or for me IKIGAI. For example, if you decide to continue your corporate job, it becomes like going to a party every day. As long as you enjoy the people you are working with, you stay. However, people come and go and as soon you feel surrounded by people you don’t like, you just leave the party or job and go somewhere else.
